Practices That Transform Us
Insights about the Bible and what it means for our lives.
Monday, December 9, 2013
Did God Really Create Everything in 7 Days?
Sunday, October 20, 2013
For Real, Though
well-adjusted robots who don’t have any problems, don't deal with sadness and depression, and don't have trouble with feeling like they're not good enough.
God created me - every part of me. He created me to be who he wanted me to be. I am made in his image, with his purpose, and in his timing.
I have trouble with self-esteem; God shows me how much he can do with me.
I have trouble with depression; God gives me strength to survive.
I feel lonely; God slowly works on making me love myself.
I’m flawed and broken and empty, but so what?! Was Jesus always happy-go-lucky? Not in the garden; and that’s not the only example.
The problem is that I want to talk about it, but people don’t like to know your problems. They like to think that everyone’s peachy and compare their flawed self-assessments to this ideal facade that they’ve believed about everyone else.
Why don’t we talk about who we are? I don’t because I don’t feel like anyone wants to hear it. However, I am trying.
I was privileged this week to have a nice conversation with my roommate about real life and real feelings. I was open and honest and so was he. We were real; we connected. We weren’t just two broken people wandering the world alone trying to be perfect reflections of God, we were family. We cared about each other. That’s what I want; that’s what I’m going for.
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
Imago Dei
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Hospitality
I am reminded of a song by Brandon Heath entitled "Give Me Your Eyes." (click on the song title for a link to the video on YouTube.) Here is the chorus:
"Give me Your eyes for just one second
Give me Your eyes so I can see
Everything that I keep missing
Give me Your love for humanity
Give me Your arms for the broken-hearted
The ones that are far beyond my reach
Give me Your heart for the ones forgotten
Give me Your eyes so I can see"
Hospitality is about giving of yourself to love people as God loves them, and as God loved you. We live in a hurting world, but God gives hope and salvation. It is our duty and privilege to tell them about it and to live it out to them.
Reflection Questions
Q: How comfortable are you with being the host or hostess?
A: Not very. I don't really feel like I have a lot to give when it comes to hosting people. I don't have a home to host people in or anything like that. But when I do, I've tried to be hospitable with what I have.
Q: How might Jesus want to use your heart and home as a shelter for others?
A: Well, I feel that God has used me to be friend to the friendless. When people need someone, I am there for them. I know what it feels like to reach out and have no one answer you. I think that God wants to use me to be the one that does answer. I may need to work on being a little more sensitive, though.
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Discipling
Reflection Questions
Q: Discipline and disciple come from the same root. What sort of reaction do you have to the word discipline?
A: Well, this:
5And have you completely forgotten this word of encouragement that addresses you as a father addresses his son? It says,When I endure hardships, I remember James 1:2-4 where it says to consider it "pure joy" when bad things happen because they produce perseverance and spiritual maturity. I want to grow as a Christian and as a person as Jesus did; and that means that I'll have to face trials. Life isn't easy, but as Luke 1:37 and Philippians 4:13 tell us: with God, I can do this.“My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline,
and do not lose heart when he rebukes you,
6 because the Lord disciplines the one he loves,
and he chastens everyone he accepts as his son.”7 Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children. For what children are not disciplined by their father? 8 If you are not disciplined—and everyone undergoes discipline—then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all. 9 Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live! 10 They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness.11 No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
Hebrews 12:5-11
Q: How are you intentionally partnering with God to become who he intended you to be?
A: This was a stinging question. I read it several times and almost didn't choose to answer it and instead answer an easier one; but it's an important question. What am I doing to become who God wants me to be? I do go pray in the chapel sometimes, I go to church, listen to Christian music, etc.; but I'll have to admit that I'm not doing so great at this one. I could give a million excuses for this, but at the end of the day, if God isn't my number one priority then what is? I try to read my Bible, but I find it hard to find time alone to myself, and when I do I don't really want to read. I shouldn't get too down on myself, because I know that God is working on me. Everything I do seems to bring me closer to him and I think that my love for him is evident to those around me, but how much personal time do I intentionally carve out to spend time alone with God? The answer, if I could be transparent for a moment, is that it is not enough. Every night, I go to bed thinking that I should have done more. I do know that I am where God wants me to be, but if you're reading this, I ask that you'd pray for me that I could find/make the time to read my Bible, pray, and otherwise spend time with God. This is something that I've been convicted of as of late, and I pray every night that God will have his way in my life. So, I'm going to work on this, but the answer to the question at this moment is: not enough.
Monday, December 5, 2011
Community
Reflection Questions
Q: What kind of connection does Christ want you to have with Christian brothers and sisters?
A: I am a servant of God, and how can I show my love to him but by obedience and service to others? I seek to serve those around me as friends and brothers in Christ. We are a family, and I will do what it takes to encourage and empower those around me to live as Christ lived and to live out his desire for their lives. I pray for those God lays on my heart. I also pray that God will use me to fulfill these purposes so that my talk will not be empty, but that it will be proven by my walk. Each one of us is to set an example for those around us. Our connection is love for God and love for people.
Q: How does the life you are leading reflect the value Christ places on belonging to the family of God?
A: I regularly seek to be part of ministries bigger than myself, to be involved in corporate worship and small group study, and to personally minister to those God has placed around me. I try to be as Paul was in 1 Corinthians 9, especially in verse 22 when he says, "I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some."
Monday, November 21, 2011
Chastity
We are the body of Christ, and our bodies are temples of the Holy One. How can we excuse disgracing this body, his temple? Chastity is not the absence of a drive, but the choice to control it and live according to God's law of love. There is no shame or fear of embarrassment in perfect love. Sexual impurity is a perversion of God's desire for our lives and for us to have healthy human relationships with one another. It is taking a natural desire and abusing it in the same way that overeating abuses the desire to eat. It is never too late to become pure. God has the power and the desire to restore us to what he has made and called us to be: pure.
Reflection Questions
Q: What impact do movies, magazines and easy access to pornography have on you?
A: All of the media in our current culture seeks to tempt us into giving into our carnal sexual desires. Movies and television form their plots around "romance" and exploring human sexuality. They glorify promiscuity and experimentation. Movies like "The 40 Year-Old Virgin" mock purity and seek to 'rectify' the 'problem' of seeking healthy non-sexual relationships and waiting until marriage. Magazines depict 'beauty' as directly proportionate to the amount of skin you're showing. Pornography sits on racks in convenience stores and gas stations and floods the internet with an overwhelming concentration of filth. It is so hard to keep pure when exposed to these things. That is why I must remember how God commanded his people: He commanded them to be different -- not for the sake of difference, but to purify themselves from worldly institutions of haughty eyes and impure thoughts. We are to be in the world, but not of the world. (John 15:19, 17:14; 1 John 2:15; James 4:4)
The way that I handle this is to avoid watching things that force me into that mindset of sexual depravity and perversion. I do not use the internet in ways that lend itself to delving into impurity. Anything that hinders is cut off. (Hebrews 12:1; Matthew 5:30) I can't control every message that comes into contact with me, but I will eliminate what I can control.
Q: How has your faith helped or not helped you face issues of your own sexuality?
A: My faith allows me to have a meaningful relationship with God and to find my self-worth and my value in who I am in Christ. I am not subject to the world's depiction of success and worth. I am a son of God, what could be more important than that?
I trust God with my relationships. If I am focusing on "fulfilling my needs" and not being alone, then I am looking for the wrong reasons. I am who I am because Christ lives in me. I will not give myself away to the whims of the worldly self, because it has been put to death. Christ lives in me, and he is the focus of my life. If any relationship gets in the way of this or seeks to hinder it, then that relationship is not worth having.
God's law of love is stated in the two greatest commandments by Jesus: Love God with everything and Love People. We are to share God's love with the people around us. This most definitely does not mean using them for pleasure or destroying their purity. Chastity is being who God made me to be despite the pressures that surround me.